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01-07-2008, 01:20 AM
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Attn: CoupeM, Stephy88, Sviper
Come come CoupeM, Stephy88, Sviper.
When hellangel come back after 16th Jan we go have drinks. I pay.
Sort our differences out face to face and leave it out of the forums. No one wants to hear any of this **** nor do I want to talk abt it anymore here. Talk on forums is cheap but since you want to talk? We talk. Face to face.
We are all adults, so come we talk like adults. Or if you want I buy drinks stand outside Cantoment Police Station talk also can. So no need to saything abt scared kena threaten or whatever.
I'm a HR Manager - not Ah Long, Ah Beng or Ah Seng.
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When hellangel come back after 16th Jan we go have drinks. I pay.
Sort our differences out face to face and leave it out of the forums. No one wants to hear any of this **** nor do I want to talk abt it anymore here. Talk on forums is cheap but since you want to talk? We talk. Face to face.
We are all adults, so come we talk like adults. Or if you want I buy drinks stand outside Cantoment Police Station talk also can. So no need to saything abt scared kena threaten or whatever.
I'm a HR Manager - not Ah Long, Ah Beng or Ah Seng.
Swerve
01-07-2008, 01:35 AM
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Svper was never involve. All the toks was done by ur ppl not by stephy88 or me. We never wan to tok...cause it wont solve watever issue is between u and stephy. I personally have no issues with u or anyone for tat matter...it is 2008...2007 is past. "can pick up, can put down"
01-07-2008, 01:47 AM
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News flash bud - I was away from the forums for a solid 7 months. Me talk? Sure I'm talking now as you guys have steadily been talking **** for all that time.
And also dont pretend you did not join in, add fuel to the flames or even start a few 'jokes' here and there behind my back or on these very forums.
I did not start this. You know that, I know that, everyone knows that.
You've even tried to stop this problem right from the very beginning btw Stephy and myself at Gavin's family funeral. I even left immediately as I did not want to create a scene there remember? Tell me who was the one who disrespectfully started **** there? At a freaking funeral?
So tell me again how much have I backed off in this 7 mths? And I aint even asking you to back down this ONE time. Just to come on out and clear the air - thats it.
As for the calling you up to talk bit? Same advice to you 'brother'. In this 7 months when I was away, you could have called me as well....but did you? No. You chose to jump on the bandwagon and contributed to all those things.
Oh and remember the meetup one month ago? I WALKED over to shake your hand still. After ALL that you have participated in saying all that **** about me. About Elaine. About my car. About me as a person.
And you are trying to paint me as the bad guy here?
Lastly I have no quarrel with you Gabe. I'd always got along with you and you were always helpful to me. Yes I know you did try to smooth things over btw me and Stephy and for that I appreciate it. But what dissapoints me is not that you chose to take sides. Far from it. Rather how could you, as a friend of mine, partake in all that bullcrap and talked **** about me?
One time is a joke.
Two times is a joke made in bad taste.
Three times and its personal.
7 months of it is unforgivable.
If you even have an ounce of decency left. Come join us for drinks. With or without Steffi or Ben. Come shake my hand again and no need for any apologies. Man up and do that and I'll leave the past alone. Drag it up here again, joke or not, and this time i WONT back down. Ever again. You have got to learn that while this is a free country, a free forum or whatever - but there is such a thing as common decency.
Think about it carefully. You have my number - call me.
And also dont pretend you did not join in, add fuel to the flames or even start a few 'jokes' here and there behind my back or on these very forums.
I did not start this. You know that, I know that, everyone knows that.
You've even tried to stop this problem right from the very beginning btw Stephy and myself at Gavin's family funeral. I even left immediately as I did not want to create a scene there remember? Tell me who was the one who disrespectfully started **** there? At a freaking funeral?
So tell me again how much have I backed off in this 7 mths? And I aint even asking you to back down this ONE time. Just to come on out and clear the air - thats it.
As for the calling you up to talk bit? Same advice to you 'brother'. In this 7 months when I was away, you could have called me as well....but did you? No. You chose to jump on the bandwagon and contributed to all those things.
Oh and remember the meetup one month ago? I WALKED over to shake your hand still. After ALL that you have participated in saying all that **** about me. About Elaine. About my car. About me as a person.
And you are trying to paint me as the bad guy here?
Lastly I have no quarrel with you Gabe. I'd always got along with you and you were always helpful to me. Yes I know you did try to smooth things over btw me and Stephy and for that I appreciate it. But what dissapoints me is not that you chose to take sides. Far from it. Rather how could you, as a friend of mine, partake in all that bullcrap and talked **** about me?
One time is a joke.
Two times is a joke made in bad taste.
Three times and its personal.
7 months of it is unforgivable.
If you even have an ounce of decency left. Come join us for drinks. With or without Steffi or Ben. Come shake my hand again and no need for any apologies. Man up and do that and I'll leave the past alone. Drag it up here again, joke or not, and this time i WONT back down. Ever again. You have got to learn that while this is a free country, a free forum or whatever - but there is such a thing as common decency.
Think about it carefully. You have my number - call me.
01-07-2008, 02:09 AM
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i will pay... dun worry...
ok i already jio them go paint "*****" game liao... but maybe they have only the paint.... hehehehehehehe
Dont worry no pushing allow? He so cute... like a bear... Maybe he worry about the face to face 5cm talk.. u guys will kiss him.......
ok i already jio them go paint "*****" game liao... but maybe they have only the paint.... hehehehehehehe
Dont worry no pushing allow? He so cute... like a bear... Maybe he worry about the face to face 5cm talk.. u guys will kiss him.......
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01-07-2008, 02:43 AM
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Gabe just took the first step and rang me up and explained the situation to me. I did not want to drag up the past and did not ask for an apology.
So this is what I said to him of which he has agreed:
That jokes like that are of bad taste.
That this should never happen again.
That while it is easy to be influenced by people around us - but still we need to know what is right and what is wrong.
That he acknowledged that I had backed down all this time - but I'd reached my limit and blew my top.
Fair enough. I will keep my end of the bargain and let this go with Gabe at least.
There are still two others in question.
For Ben all I need is a call & an assurance, I also think there are things that you need to clear up with Dean as well.
As for Stephy. Facts or no facts, yes they are facts. Now everyone on these forums knows what happened to me.
But that still does not give you any excuse to do what you did. And while this is a free forum and you can say what you want to say? But there are consequences. Not physically but deep down inside you will know just what every single person who reads all this thinks of you.
That in itself is more than enough for me as to you? Your 'face' is all that you care about.
But since you want to kick me when I'm down, backstab me and talk **** about me on the forums, on MSN and to anyone who will listen to you? Then come come we talk outside Cantoment or lets have drinks at Boat Quay as we used to do. Dun worry - I'll pay. Just you and me. And if you feel bad about getting pushed or shoved or felt my breath right in your face the other nite? Then come no worries - I wont call the cops if thats what you are worried about. Or if you want to talk like an adult and not play the hide behind the forum or the face to face shouting match? I'd be happy to do so too.
Your call but let me tell you this. This time I wont back down ever again. Dont ever think that I am an easy target just because I am an easy going guy. Talk is cheap and you have said more than enough to last a lifetime for some people.
So time to put up or shut up.
So this is what I said to him of which he has agreed:
That jokes like that are of bad taste.
That this should never happen again.
That while it is easy to be influenced by people around us - but still we need to know what is right and what is wrong.
That he acknowledged that I had backed down all this time - but I'd reached my limit and blew my top.
Fair enough. I will keep my end of the bargain and let this go with Gabe at least.
There are still two others in question.
For Ben all I need is a call & an assurance, I also think there are things that you need to clear up with Dean as well.
As for Stephy. Facts or no facts, yes they are facts. Now everyone on these forums knows what happened to me.
But that still does not give you any excuse to do what you did. And while this is a free forum and you can say what you want to say? But there are consequences. Not physically but deep down inside you will know just what every single person who reads all this thinks of you.
That in itself is more than enough for me as to you? Your 'face' is all that you care about.
But since you want to kick me when I'm down, backstab me and talk **** about me on the forums, on MSN and to anyone who will listen to you? Then come come we talk outside Cantoment or lets have drinks at Boat Quay as we used to do. Dun worry - I'll pay. Just you and me. And if you feel bad about getting pushed or shoved or felt my breath right in your face the other nite? Then come no worries - I wont call the cops if thats what you are worried about. Or if you want to talk like an adult and not play the hide behind the forum or the face to face shouting match? I'd be happy to do so too.
Your call but let me tell you this. This time I wont back down ever again. Dont ever think that I am an easy target just because I am an easy going guy. Talk is cheap and you have said more than enough to last a lifetime for some people.
So time to put up or shut up.
01-07-2008, 03:02 AM
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Gabe just took the first step and rang me up and explained the situation to me. I did not want to drag up the past and did not ask for an apology.
So this is what I said to him of which he has agreed:
That jokes like that are of bad taste.
That this should never happen again.
So this is what I said to him of which he has agreed:
That jokes like that are of bad taste.
That this should never happen again.
01-07-2008, 03:10 AM
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It is good that you have stood up for yourself Gabe and agreed with what I've posted and we've talked abt on the phone.
I will let matters go with you and I trust that you will keep to your word.
My offer stands for you to come out and join up with us for dinner tomorrow night.
Ben has agreed to join us and clear the air with MDC. Sean will be there as well to see that it remains civil.
MDC is not against you but rather the actions of **** stirring which we've all agreed is wrong, hurtful and never to be repeated again. So again come join us for dinner and shake hands. Dinner on me @ chom chom. Lets shake hands like men and adults and let this go.
This leaves just Stephy.
Whatever I've said above stands and for him and him alone I want an apology. Not just to me but to Elaine as well. If not? then come come lets have a private talk just you and me.
No more bullshit.
I will let matters go with you and I trust that you will keep to your word.
My offer stands for you to come out and join up with us for dinner tomorrow night.
Ben has agreed to join us and clear the air with MDC. Sean will be there as well to see that it remains civil.
MDC is not against you but rather the actions of **** stirring which we've all agreed is wrong, hurtful and never to be repeated again. So again come join us for dinner and shake hands. Dinner on me @ chom chom. Lets shake hands like men and adults and let this go.
This leaves just Stephy.
Whatever I've said above stands and for him and him alone I want an apology. Not just to me but to Elaine as well. If not? then come come lets have a private talk just you and me.
No more bullshit.
01-07-2008, 04:01 AM
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It is good that you have stood up for yourself Gabe and agreed with what I've posted and we've talked abt on the phone.
I will let matters go with you and I trust that you will keep to your word.
My offer stands for you to come out and join up with us for dinner tomorrow night.
Ben has agreed to join us and clear the air with MDC. Sean will be there as well to see that it remains civil.
MDC is not against you but rather the actions of **** stirring which we've all agreed is wrong, hurtful and never to be repeated again. So again come join us for dinner and shake hands. Dinner on me @ chom chom. Lets shake hands like men and adults and let this go.
This leaves just Stephy.
Whatever I've said above stands and for him and him alone I want an apology. Not just to me but to Elaine as well. If not? then come come lets have a private talk just you and me.
No more bullshit.
I will let matters go with you and I trust that you will keep to your word.
My offer stands for you to come out and join up with us for dinner tomorrow night.
Ben has agreed to join us and clear the air with MDC. Sean will be there as well to see that it remains civil.
MDC is not against you but rather the actions of **** stirring which we've all agreed is wrong, hurtful and never to be repeated again. So again come join us for dinner and shake hands. Dinner on me @ chom chom. Lets shake hands like men and adults and let this go.
This leaves just Stephy.
Whatever I've said above stands and for him and him alone I want an apology. Not just to me but to Elaine as well. If not? then come come lets have a private talk just you and me.
No more bullshit.
Har, did someone say got FREE DINNER???
Aniway I sincerely hope your guys can iron out the differences.
We were once all good bros, friction bound to have but it's all how we handle it.
I really miss the good old days....truce for 2008 ok?
I will bottoms up 1 jug of Singha beer for u guys 2moro!
01-07-2008, 05:11 AM
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Wanna bet again uh.. Pay up first lor, not like u so thick skin, owe money, like tortise hide here hide there for weeks/months. $188 + $50. = $238
Pay or dont pay its your call. Karma is on you.
Pay or dont pay its your call. Karma is on you.
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