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RANDOM: I HATE MY CELL PHONE! Ok, I feel better. Anyone have an email server that my phone might let me send an email through? I'm not having any luck with either of mine
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I'm going to gripe about one more thing today, and then no more. IT'S HOT AS HELL IN HERE!!! My AC has went out and it's 86 degrees in my apartment. This sucks! Oh, wait... 87! Ok, I'm headed toward FW now.
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Originally Posted by NYT-OWL
What ends up happening in most relationships is that there is a "miscommunication" between the parties that are involved. One person thinks that the relationship is exclusive and the other doesn't. Usually the person that ends up getting hurt is the one that believes the relationship is exclusive. This can all be avoided by asking the simple question,"Are we exclusive?"
It looks like I am actually getting through to Dazy, she's now agreed with me twice.
It looks like I am actually getting through to Dazy, she's now agreed with me twice.
Ok, there is the background in a very brief form. So I've spent the last year hanging out with people, dating, whatever. Everything was ok. Then of course I met someone that was different than the rest. She's not dingy or whatever. We have only been talking for about 3 weeks, but I feel comfortable. After spending nights wondering what was going to happen or what she wanted and recieving some advice I decided to ask her. So tonight I asked her where we stood and what she expected/wanted. I was not blunt, but didn't have to be. She says... get this NYT-OWL, "I don't want anything exclusive". So of course this not being what I want to hear, I have to ask her to explain it. The bottom line is she says she wants to see other people. 1st, considering the fact that we have only been talking for 3 weeks, this should be ok. But the other side of me says I just can't do it. I can't actually care for someone who wants to see other people. I guess what I'm getting at is if she was someone that I thought might work or was "OK" then I would go for it. But my dumbass self actually cares and can't go through this "seeing other people" stuff. So I walked out of the house, called her, and explained to her why I couldn't do it. I guess I've been through the dating process enough to know that I'm too picky to find what I want, and when I do she wants to see other people.
Anyway, I just had to let that off my chest so I could get some sleep. Don't feel you have to respond if you don't want to. This is a messed up situation, and is really stupid. Thanks for the open ears.
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Originally Posted by TeamRX8
you should of called me man, I stay up late
Originally Posted by jenkins-crew
Dude that sucks, I'm sorry. If you want to talk about it more call me. You should be very glad you got it straight now rather than later before it got too deep.
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SLIM! You know that if you called me at 12:30, you would have woken me from a dead sleep... but I still would have answered the phone and we couldn't have talked until the sun came up if you needed to. We're here anytime you need us. I'm sorry to hear about Alayna because she's really nice, but sometimes it just doesn't work out the way we want it to. Hang in there.
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Thanks, I really appreciate it. I really thought about calling, but I decided against it. She is great, but things happen. So was I right for thinking this way? Maybe it's just me, but when I care for someone (even if we are just dating), I'm not going to see anyone else.
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I think the same way. Although I know that my options are open and can talk to whoever I want to, I tend to put on blinders if I'm "talking" to someone and everything seems to be going good.
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Yeah, especially when she acts serious. One night my phone rang or something and she made the comment: "Is that your girlfriend?" So her phone rang later and I returned the comment. She said "No, I don't have any other boyfriends". I don't get it... so confused.
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Originally Posted by jenkins-crew
I don't believe in that back burner BS either, if your interested your exclusive. If not be freinds, its best start that way anyway.