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08-26-2009, 02:20 AM
OMGITM!
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gotta pay to play 
If you know you're headed down that road for 1 purpose (p*ssy) then get in and get out ASAP. No emotion, no ties no strings. Treat it like a bank robbery, in and out w/out a trace and no looking back.
However if you plan on setting forth on a long endevour i always highly suggest setting out parameters. Not like formal guidelines, but let them be aware of your dislikes...not like aware...i guess...what i mean to say is BURN IT INTO THEIR MINDS of what your dislikes are. Let them know up front so that way when they do cross it...you can remind them, guiltfree.
If you know you're headed down that road for 1 purpose (p*ssy) then get in and get out ASAP. No emotion, no ties no strings. Treat it like a bank robbery, in and out w/out a trace and no looking back.
However if you plan on setting forth on a long endevour i always highly suggest setting out parameters. Not like formal guidelines, but let them be aware of your dislikes...not like aware...i guess...what i mean to say is BURN IT INTO THEIR MINDS of what your dislikes are. Let them know up front so that way when they do cross it...you can remind them, guiltfree.
part B is too much work
edit: I thought about my past experience. If you play the knight in shining armor, by the time you realize you played that role (after all, it wasn't intentional) the girl has already reached stage 3 clinger.
Strong independent chicks, eh? You'd be surprised how many girls who look especially strong turn out to have an extra load of baggage.
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08-26-2009, 02:22 AM
Dig this...
if you naturally have a strong personality with very strong beliefs that you can support and defend w/a persuasive nature - people who have strong personalities some times bend to you - sometimes making them clingy because they feed off of you.
Kinda trippy but i'm noticing this with some life long friends. I'm noticing that when your presence is strong in someone's life - that person more or less lives life with you as their inhaler, so to speak. They can live w/out you, but they don't...
dunno if anybody else has more to add to this but it's just something i've been noticing
08-26-2009, 02:25 AM
part A contradicts being a good guy
part B is too much work
edit: I thought about my past experience. If you play the knight in shining armor, by the time you realize you played that role (after all, it wasn't intentional) the girl has already reached stage 3 clinger.
Strong independent chicks, eh? You'd be surprised how many girls who look especially strong turn out to have an extra load of baggage.
part B is too much work
edit: I thought about my past experience. If you play the knight in shining armor, by the time you realize you played that role (after all, it wasn't intentional) the girl has already reached stage 3 clinger.
Strong independent chicks, eh? You'd be surprised how many girls who look especially strong turn out to have an extra load of baggage.
Part B: yup, no argument there
Stage 3: some people like a clinger...some people like being wanted - not everybody tho...heh
independent chicks - couldn't agree with you more
08-26-2009, 02:28 AM
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Kinda funny, i think i may have stumbled upon something as of recently.
Dig this...
if you naturally have a strong personality with very strong beliefs that you can support and defend w/a persuasive nature - people who have strong personalities some times bend to you - sometimes making them clingy because they feed off of you.
Kinda trippy but i'm noticing this with some life long friends. I'm noticing that when your presence is strong in someone's life - that person more or less lives life with you as their inhaler, so to speak. They can live w/out you, but they don't...
dunno if anybody else has more to add to this but it's just something i've been noticing
Dig this...
if you naturally have a strong personality with very strong beliefs that you can support and defend w/a persuasive nature - people who have strong personalities some times bend to you - sometimes making them clingy because they feed off of you.
Kinda trippy but i'm noticing this with some life long friends. I'm noticing that when your presence is strong in someone's life - that person more or less lives life with you as their inhaler, so to speak. They can live w/out you, but they don't...
dunno if anybody else has more to add to this but it's just something i've been noticing
Wouldn't this just mean those who appear strong aren't really when it comes down to it; They would, more so, be shaping their 'beliefs' or views to what seems socially accepted or yearned for, no? If one is truly independent, anothers' beliefs or ideals may rub off but wouldn't really take place of or mold that person's own beliefs.
I somewhat agree on the concept, I think its another way of observing it. IMO it often depends on the persons sense of independence. Some seem to need others to lean on, some seem to be able to make it on their own just fine. Leads down the path of "Any childhood traumas?" and psychological history.
Atilla, you're a smart guy :icon_tups:
08-26-2009, 02:29 AM
Her and I are finally talking after almost 10 years of silence. She finally admitted to saying the reason why she's talking to me is because she's finally forgotten why she 'hated' me.
I told her i haven't forgotten. . .
. . . but when i began to remind her, she said she'd rather not remember
I said cool
08-26-2009, 02:31 AM
08-26-2009, 02:32 AM
fcck that **** dde i had so much tongiht lol we were plahying ******* red band i mean rock bannnd and we were ******* hammered at my hgose a couple of friends and i it was aweksome
08-26-2009, 02:32 AM